Be nice, or leave.

yes. be nice, or leave. if you notice, i am not using exclamation mark, indeed, just a FULL stop. in this world, not everyone is nice or good to you.

so why are we angry with them, got emotional, and risking our health from having higher blood pressure? the best way to manage unreasonable people, is just dismiss them. their main intention is just to be a jerk and see how you react to them. the more you react, the more excited they are.

so, in the future, when you have these jerks being unreasonable, you should just smile and say: ” be nice, or leave” 🙂


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3 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Kenneth Fach
    Jul 20, 2008 @ 08:10:14

    There would be absolutely no emotional stress if we all followed the biblical Golden Rule of treating each other like we want others to treat us.

  2. sansan
    Jul 20, 2008 @ 11:21:12

    Dear Kenneth, welcome to my weblog and thanks for leaving a comment here. 🙂
    in chinese proverb, there is one saying exectly the same too.
    so am totally agree with what you’ve said. however, it just seems not all in this world understand and know how to do that. no matter how well we do, we cant please EVERYONE. so, just do the right things with clear conscience regardless how others treat us.

    do you agree? 🙂

  3. novice101
    Jul 21, 2008 @ 13:14:38

    Another way of not letting what they do to cause you stress is to let ‘it be’. If the things they ‘throw’ at you are not ‘accepted’ then they themselves get back all they have thrown.

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